dimanche 19 avril 2009

Timing is everything

Picking the right moment to say or do the right thing is the essence of everything. We make judgments about everything in a matter of seconds, rarely giving away a second thought about what we decided just after a little gesture.
Sometimes it s even the confirmation about what our guts made us feel, the final conclusion and proof of our intuition. It could be the truth, but letting get away all the conditionality of this specific moment which led to an single act... could not be the correct course of action.
Everybody deserves a second chance, sometimes three.
In our fast growing world, everything is made within seconds, no time to waste, we catalog all our surrounding, human or not, in a way to quicken the information flow. But is it working? Quick ruling and intuition are quite different. Too bad most of the people consider granted the whole concept of our personality just because of what we show or what we just said. I miss the time that I never lived, when everything took time enough to be unfolded. Today, as yesterday, it was cautious to keep some cards in hand, keeping the true "us" for some chosen ones. Even if it implicates showing a very different image from "our selves".

Nowadays we skip this discovery and trust moment in detriment of a tag reading.
Tag, that we organize mostly our own way, which, most of the case is completely different from the tagged person...

As a quick example, I m tagged as Gothic all the times... But seriously, ask a real Goth... You ll get an answer... maybe too complicated for you to understand. It s quite complex to define a goth, and I won t even try to explain you the evolution (or better transformation, or mutation) where I stand now considering myself as a Christian Pagan Meritocrat Pothead Reiki teacher...
Hopefully and Surprisingly is it possible to find people interested in discovering more about each others. I have to confess I used to read my own tags also instead of really caring of what the other person could have to say.








But now, it s over.














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